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Core tools

Dialogue tool

Section from the interactive two-leg model reference: attachment and assertiveness legs, coping modes under stress, and tools that support balance.

Psychoeducation only. Concepts here support self-understanding and conversations with a qualified professional; they are not a clinical diagnosis or mode inventory score.
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Connection dialogue coach

A structured 7-step dialogue for couples to share feelings, listen deeply, validate each other, and find collaborative solutions. Based on schema therapy couples work.

CONNECTION DIALOGUE

Step-by-Step Guided Conversation

Step 1 of 7

1

Setup & Agreement

Goal: Both partners agree to time and place with readiness

Partner A (Speaker in this step)

Invite your partner to a connection dialogue. Choose a calm moment.

Partner B (Listener in this step)

Accept or postpone (suggest alternative time within 24 hours).

💬 Example Dialogue

"I'd like to try a structured conversation where we both share and listen. Would now work, or should we pick a time tomorrow?"

Connection Dialogue Coach — schema therapy couples tool. Based on the work of Young, Klosko, and Weishaar. NOT scored from YSQ-R

Official YSQ-3 long/short forms and other schema inventories are copyrighted by the Schema Therapy Institute and sold through their order center. Theory and inventory overview: Schema Therapy Institute. This portal uses a Rasch YSQ-R style implementation for self-reflection—not those licensed forms.