Clarity on the Cluster B Dynamic. No Textbook Jargon.
Whether you are trying to make sense of a discard, rejecting a hoover, untangling reactive abuse, or building hard-won self-awareness—this is the private toolkit built for The Bat Wolf community.
Complete Toolkit
Four Ways to Get Out of the Fog
One private account gives you line-by-line message analysis, real-time reply coaching, longitudinal relationship memory, and 1-on-1 session prep.
Conversation Safety Check
Paste texts, DMs, or upload voice recordings and screenshots. Multi-model AI flags gaslighting, DARVO, blame-shifting, hoovering, and separates reactive pushback from primary control—line by line.
Communications & Grey-Rock Wizard
Whether you are holding a firm boundary against a hoover or practicing self-aware accountability so your message doesn’t come across attacking or defensive, get instant rewrite suggestions before you reply.
Relationship Memory & Longitudinal Arc
Love-bombing, devaluation, discard, hoover—repeat. Stop treating every fight like an isolated incident. Track patterns across weeks or months with the same person so your memory can’t be gaslit.
Shareable Case & Session Briefs
Going into a 1-on-1 coaching call, therapy session, or attorney consult? Export a clean PDF or time-limited read-only link with exact line quotes so you don’t burn your hour reading screenshots.
🦇🐺 See What It Actually Does · Live Sample Reports
Inside a Real Line-by-Line Report (Before You Even Sign Up)
Click through the three real-world Cluster B scenarios below to see how Safety Check pins patterns to exact message lines, separates reactive pushback from primary abuse, and builds a 1-on-1 coaching brief.
Covert Provocation → Blaming Your Reaction ("The Last Word" Trap)
Executive Read: Speaker A denies a broken agreement, invalidates Speaker B’s memory, and provokes an emotional reaction—then immediately pivots to play the victim of Speaker B’s "anger."
“I never said I’d be home by 7. You literally invent things in your head just to start a fight.”
Analyst Receipt: Denies verifiable prior text agreement and attributes the conflict to the receiver’s sanity.
“Stop lying to me!! Look at the screenshot from 3pm! I am sick of you doing this every week—don’t call me tonight.”
Analyst Receipt: High-volume punctuation triggered by repeated denial, paired with a self-protective boundary ("don’t call me tonight"). Not scored as primary abuse.
“Wow. Look at how unhinged and abusive you are. Everyone sees how crazy you act. I’m the one walking on eggshells.”
Analyst Receipt: Captures the reactive pushback on L13 to erase the original breach and flip offender/victim roles.
Pivots from the 7pm broken promise to framing your frustration on L13 as "abusive."
Your L13 message is classified as reactive distress + self-protective boundary—not mutual abuse.
"I am not debating what was sent at 3pm. I’m taking space tonight and we can talk tomorrow when things are calm."
When You're on the Receiving End
- • See exact lines where blame was shifted onto your reaction.
- • Compare a new "I've changed" hoover message against past fights.
- • Upload long SMS exports, screenshots, or voice memos without losing context.
- • Walk into your next coaching or therapy call with organized receipts.
When You're Building Self-Awareness
- • Test your draft messages before sending when you feel triggered or split.
- • Spot where your tone sounds attacking, dismissive, or defensive.
- • Get concrete, respectful alternative phrasing in seconds.
- • Track your own communication goals and accountability over time.
Transparent Pricing · 14-day free trial on paid plans
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No confusing one-time credit packs. Every member starts with a complimentary Starter ($0/mo) account, and every paid tier includes a 14-day free trial via secure Stripe checkout. Cancel anytime in one click.
- ✓Up to 32K AI completion tokens per reply
- ✓Standard Safety Check runs included
- ✓1 SMS / conversation file import per month
- ✓500 AI chat messages/month
- ✓5 active goals & 10 reflections/month
- ✓Full Couples Connect & Crisis tools
- ✓Up to 65K AI completion tokens per reply
- ✓Unlimited SMS & chat conversation imports
- ✓In-depth multi-model Safety Check capacity
- ✓Unlimited AI chat messages
- ✓Communications Wizard & pattern analysis
- ✓CSV/JSON data exports & email support
- ✓Up to 128K AI completion tokens per reply
- ✓Everything in Growth + 2× monthly AI headroom
- ✓Heavy multi-part thread splitting & analysis
- ✓Relationship Memory & Longitudinal Arc
- ✓Timed read-only report sharing
- ✓Up to 1M AI completion tokens per reply
- ✓Printable PDF Safety Check & Session Briefs
- ✓Multi-conversation & trend analysis over time
- ✓Optional Law, Bible & Pastor’s Lens views
- ✓Priority support & early feature access
- ✓Up to 1M AI completion tokens per reply
- ✓Built for 1-on-1 Coaches & Practitioners
- ✓Branded client portal & intake forms (/p/slug)
- ✓Client progress dashboard & PDF session briefs
- ✓Multi-user support (up to 5) & telehealth
NamedClearly is your 24/7 private analysis workspace. When you book a live 1-on-1 coaching call with Steven Ingram (The Bat Wolf), bring your Safety Check PDF or share link so you spend the whole hour on strategy—not reading old texts.
Common Questions from the Community
Why does a line-by-line check matter in NPD / BPD dynamics?
In Cluster B dynamics—especially when NPD and BPD traits overlap—conversations move fast from intense closeness to splitting, blame-shifting, and reactive provocation. Looking at the thread line by line with multi-model consensus removes the fog and shows the exact turning points.
Does this automatically label someone a "narcissist" or "abuser"?
No. No software can diagnose a personality disorder. Instead, NamedClearly highlights observable communication behaviors—like DARVO, guilt-tripping, ultimatums, moving goalposts, and self-protective boundary setting—in plain English.
Can I use this if I am working on my own self-awareness?
Yes. Self-awareness means catching your own triggers, splitting, or defensive tone before it blows up a conversation. Use Communications Wizard and Safety Check to see how your words land and get calmer, clearer phrasing.
How do I share my report for a 1-on-1 coaching call?
After running a Safety Check, click "Create share link" or export to PDF. You control the expiration timer and can revoke access at any time.
Disclaimer: NamedClearly and The Bat Wolf (Steven Ingram) partnership resources provide educational pattern analysis and communication clarity—not clinical diagnosis, psychological treatment, or legal advice.
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