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$75 / Hour · Video or Phone Session · 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM CST (Up to 7 Days a Week)
Pre-Session Intake & Thread Prep
With over 1,000,000 followers across social media, 1-on-1 slots fill quickly. Prepping your conversation thread in NamedClearly before your session means we skip 40 minutes of background story and go straight to what matters.
Before your 1-on-1 hour starts, paste your text thread, DMs, or voice notes into the Bat Wolf Safety Check. Generate a 1-page PDF or time-limited read-only share link so Steven can see the timeline and exact DARVO / hoovering / reactive-abuse lines immediately.
Sessions run 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM CST, up to 7 days a week, by video call or phone call—whatever you are most comfortable with. Rate is $75 USD/hour via PayPal, Venmo, Cash App, or Apple Pay.
Because your Safety Check report already organized the receipts, you and Steven can spend the entire session decoding the NPD/BPD dynamic, getting closure, or building your next-step boundary plan.
When someone provokes you for hours and then points at your reaction as "proof" that you are the abusive one. See both sides clearly from someone who has lived both sides.
Untangle rapid swings between intense idealization ("soulmate"), anxious abandonment triggers, sudden cold discards, and late-night hoover attempts.
Know what happens when you reject a hoover, how to stop handing a manipulator emotional supply, and how to hold firm when guilt-trips hit.
If you have NPD/BPD traits yourself and want to stop splitting or blowing up your relationships, walk through your triggers and draft calmer responses before you hit send.
🦇🐺 See What It Actually Does · Live Sample Reports
Click through the three real-world Cluster B scenarios below to see how Safety Check pins patterns to exact message lines, separates reactive pushback from primary abuse, and builds a 1-on-1 coaching brief.
Executive Read: Speaker A denies a broken agreement, invalidates Speaker B’s memory, and provokes an emotional reaction—then immediately pivots to play the victim of Speaker B’s "anger."
“I never said I’d be home by 7. You literally invent things in your head just to start a fight.”
Analyst Receipt: Denies verifiable prior text agreement and attributes the conflict to the receiver’s sanity.
“Stop lying to me!! Look at the screenshot from 3pm! I am sick of you doing this every week—don’t call me tonight.”
Analyst Receipt: High-volume punctuation triggered by repeated denial, paired with a self-protective boundary ("don’t call me tonight"). Not scored as primary abuse.
“Wow. Look at how unhinged and abusive you are. Everyone sees how crazy you act. I’m the one walking on eggshells.”
Analyst Receipt: Captures the reactive pushback on L13 to erase the original breach and flip offender/victim roles.
Pivots from the 7pm broken promise to framing your frustration on L13 as "abusive."
Your L13 message is classified as reactive distress + self-protective boundary—not mutual abuse.
"I am not debating what was sent at 3pm. I’m taking space tonight and we can talk tomorrow when things are calm."
Disclaimer: NamedClearly and The Bat Wolf (Steven Ingram) partnership resources provide educational pattern analysis and communication clarity—not clinical diagnosis, psychological treatment, or legal advice.
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